Public speaking is not just about making formal speeches. The Merriam Webster dictionary defines public speaking as “the art of effective communication with an audience”. Who doesn’t need to communicate effectively with an audience at some stage in their lives, bearing in mind that an audience could be one, ten or an auditorium full of people or even an audience of an unlimited size at the other side of a camera?

From formal presentations at work to delivering a heartfelt toast at a wedding, from addressing an audience as a community committee member to telling a story, from asking a question in a room full of people to accepting an award, from leading a team to leading a nation, from standing up to advocate for ourselves or others to giving a eulogy, opportunities to address an audience and have our voice heard, are endless. Although the thought of speaking in public can be nerve-wracking for some, it is important to recognize the immense value these occasions hold. They provide us with the chance to grow, learn, and leave a lasting impact.

Every time we step up to speak, we embark on a journey of personal and professional development. Public speaking pushes us out of our comfort zones, forcing us to overcome our fears and hone our communication skills. It teaches us to articulate our thoughts clearly, think on our feet, and engage with diverse audiences. Each opportunity allows us to refine our presentation style, build confidence, and become better versions of ourselves.

Some of the most common occasions when public speaking skills are needed include: weddings; funerals; graduations; conferences; job interviews; contributing as part of courses; meetings; sales pitches; pitches to investors; public protests; political campaigns; community events and meetings; religious services; awards ceremonies as a recipient or presenter; teaching;  training sessions; workshops; celebratory events such as birthdays, anniversaries, retirement parties; debates comprising or formal debates or discussions; sports events and on a daily basis in certain professions.

The skills we learn through public speaking practice, we use also in everyday conversations and communication, skills such as clarity in structuring our message, storytelling skills, use of descriptive language and rhetorical devices, body language, eye contact,  facial expressions, hand gestures and vocal variety. 

It was said to me once, “Not everybody has to or wants to speak in public.” I gave this some serious reflection and consideration. I wonder do some people choose not to speak in public because they genuinely don’t want to or because they have never had the opportunity to learn the skills and practise. If we take public speaking to mean “the art of effective communication with an audience”, it’s difficult to see how everyone may not, at some stage in their lives, have this opportunity. Whether or not they choose to avail of it and whether they are prepared for it or not, when it arises, are other matters entirely.

And if someone says, “I don’t want to speak in public and I won’t”, it begs the question, “Can public speaking really be avoided?” Possibly, but perhaps at great personal cost.

In conclusion, whether it's sharing a story, pitching an idea, leading a team, or advocating for a cause, effective communication and public speaking present us with wonderful opportunities for connection and for personal and professional growth. With every speaking opportunity, we have the potential to effect change, share our knowledge, and leave an indelible mark on the world.
By developing strong public speaking skills, we can feel more confident and comfortable in every social situation, and better able to communicate our ideas and perspectives. The opportunities will present throughout life. The question is, will we be ready to seize them?

Let us seize these moments, embrace the challenge, and let our voices be heard.